Are You Serious With Her?


Written by:  Adelowo  Babajide O.

Over the years,people have engaged themselves in one relationship or the other. But most times, these relationships are that of "a mosquito to man" type as far as I'm concerned. And ladies happens to fall victim of these condition.

So this piece is directed to the men or guys (as you so wish).I hope this helps someone out there.

1. Before you start a relationship with a lady you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly.

2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally,mentally and spiritually mature enough to meet her needs?

3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness,love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?

4. This lady has a history,can you handle it? She has a past,can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes,failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous?

5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?

6. Love is commitment! Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be By God’s grace?

7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready,I say don’t just bother.

8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, Ask yourself if this is not just ‘A moment of emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs care,she needs your commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage Please leave her alone in PEACE and stop wasting her time!

Enough said.


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